For instance I've been trying to control my love for luxury by saving my money. I have been more responsible with my income by keeping 50% of in in my wallet and regular baking account meanwhile placing the other 50% in a savings account.
I'll be honest in that I have yet to correct my habit of taking unnecessary risks. In my opinion it is just one of those traits I will always keep with me due to my distinct personality and love for spontaneous fun. I doo understand that this often time gets me in a lot of trouble but I'd be lying to you if I said I didn't enjoy this part about me.
Finally, we get the the trait I've been wanting to change the most about myself, my habit of judging others. I think we can all admit to having a few occasions where we've been a bit to quick to label others, and in my opionion that shouldn;t happen until you've gotten to know that person so you can make an accurate judgement on somebody and hopefully a positive one. One way I've been trying to fix this is putting myself in the other persons shoes and trying to figure their story out. I will have had made an effort to get to know them and then hopefully I will have made a positive impact in their life as well as walk away with a new relationship with somebody that I would have normally incorrectly profiled.
Your goal of avoiding judgement will be easier as you practice the 25 ways to win with people. It will help you see other people for who they really are.
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